A wise woman I once knew pointed something out to me and I want to share it to you all...
Humans everywhere. A NOTE: When talking about yourself as a couple you are NOT, I repeat not a half. So, NO, your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/lover is not your better half, other half, or worse half. You are an entire person! The same way he/she is an ENTIRE person. You are two individual human beings.
I mean hello, are you a floating torso?
You are two unique special separate living organisms that make A COUPLE.
So it is not Happy Valentines to my better half. Its Happy Valentines to an EXCLUSIVE person that makes up your duo...
Maybe this is part of the reason why ninety percent of relationships end in heartache or heartbreak. Hello? If you are not confident enough in who you are to call yourself a whole person, how the hell do you intend on loving another WHOLE person?
You have to, have to, have to, have to, love yourself. And have enough respect for yourself to acknowledge that you are a whole person. Otherwise it is completely and utterly pointless attempting to be in couple.
Look, I am not perfect. Far from it. In fact I fall victim to this kind of thing all the time. Am I good enough, do I deserve someone special, on and on the self-doubt goes. But this blog is my contract. It is a contract to myself that I will always believe that I am no-ones half. I am someone's whole.
Love and Life!